you was just another nigha on the hit list

#YOU WAS JUST ANOTHER NIGHA ON THE HIT LIST HOW TO#

So what do we do? We ruin it and say something like “you know how many bitches wanna be with me?!” Please don’t do that. As men, we hate when someone has leverage over us, especially in a situationship with a woman we potentially like. Again, a lot of the hurt from these situations comes from one person trying to have leverage over the other. Man up, if she really likes you, she’ll tell you.ĭon’t throw your other women in her face, keep it thorough and respect each other’s space. Or she’ll just never come back around because you tried to ruin her fun, talking about love and shit.

because you weren’t ready for her to tell you the real. Don’t be pressed, you’ll only set yourself up to get your feelings hurt and then you’ll be simping. Whether you make the cut or not, be a gentleman, dick her down, and when she’s ready for round 2 she’ll hit you up. She’s probably listening to Rihanna records singing in the mirror “you were just another nigga on the hit list.” Yeah we know, but to set a reasonable expectation for yourself, you know when a woman is looking for commitment and when she’s not, and if she’s not, look forward to unanswered texts and calls being returned 3 days later. Have fun with it, and if you want more from it, see how it pans out, but don’t force it.īe prepared for her to not spare your feelings. We know we are more than a dick appointment but it is what is for the time being. You are not Drake and lets be real if you aren’t ready to really change her life for the better, don’t try to save her to protect your ego. Number one….Don’t be Superman, if you are dealing with women who are shooting from the hip and have no intention of being wifed, don’t be the guy trying to save her, because clearly, she isn’t looking to be saved.

#YOU WAS JUST ANOTHER NIGHA ON THE HIT LIST HOW TO#

There are a few things we need to consider when dating women who are going through their “Hoe Phase” and how to not hurt each other and learn that if the right expectation is set it can be fun for both parties involved while no one gets hurt. We need to learn that there are ways to deal with women who are just as “savage’’ as us. Dealing with women who are open and honest about what they want and where they are in life is something we should cherish and encourage because if it were us (men) we would be giving high fives and saying shit like “thats my nigga!” after he has slept with numerous women in a short time.ĭating is a two way street. We invite this behavior and then want to chastise women if we get hurt and thats not how this works. Unfortunately, society has created a double standard when it comes to men and women, and exercising their sexual liberties. In some cases this can be true, but for the most part from what I understand its just a time in a woman’s life where she just wants sex with no strings attached, and more importantly, to have fun.That’s where we come in.

The misconception about the hoe phase is that women are just openly sleeping with any and every guy that they meet without just cause. There’s always been a stigma attached to the word “hoe” and the period in which women go through this time of sexual freedom and liberation. The Hoe Phase is a phase in a woman’s life where she experiments and gets to know herself sexually. “Dont Save Her, She Don’t Wanna Be Saved”: Let her have her Hoe Phase…įirst things first, I wrote this piece to Drake’s “Houstalantavegas”

You was just another nigha on the hit list